One of the issues that most doubts cause all men and women since the beginning of humanity is, without a doubt, romantic relationships .
So if you’ve come here for advice, don’t be discouraged! You are not and will not be the only one who needs them.
When we fall in love or like someone very much, we don’t want to break up with the couple.
If you have wondered why you feel afraid of losing it, there you have the answer: fear is almost inherent if it is about romantic relationships .
We do not want to end the good that this relationship has because we do not want to ruin it, and if we are alone for a while, without a partner, the feeling is worse!
We fear then, when starting one, that it will not last or that we are not worth to be with that person.
If you want to know how to improve your love relationships, read on!
What To Do?
First of all you should try to eliminate those negative thoughts and work on other aspects that can strengthen your emotional relationships .
If you focus on positive things you will only attract that: positivity.
Even if the relationship ends in rupture, you will see it differently and overcome it much faster and give yourself the opportunity to have better romantic relationships.
This way you will be ready, again, to receive and give love to another person.
If that is your case right now, I recommend you read: The love between us is over: And now, what do I do? so you can discover other tips that can help you.
How To Improve Sentiment Relations
As I told you, each couple is a world, and all sentimental relationships are different.
This means that there is no specific key for all to work; However, there are many aspects that you can work on and that are common to all.
If you bet on the effort (which will not be so much), you will achieve, in a short time, excellent results with your current partner or the one to come.
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10 Keys To Win In The Romantic Relationships
Here I am going to leave you some tips that you can review and apply for yourself and your partner.
Verify what you are doing wrong and how you can improve in your relationships :
Key # 1: Good Mood
This is possibly one of the fundamental points in sentimental relationships .
Having fun, relaxing, going for a walk together, and always laughing is the key!
Nobody wants by his side a bitter person who torments his life.
So if you have a bad temper and can’t control anger frequently, then you have to work on it!
Similarly, if you are always depressed, with watery eyes and lost to the daily battle with the world, then get out of that state!
You may need psychological help, and you better seek it because otherwise you will end up chasing away the blue prince, the green, the red and everyone!
Laughter is one of the best remedies against stress, depression, anger, loneliness, apathy and even physical discomfort and illness.
Just by sketching a smile on your face you will feel better.
In addition, there is nothing healthier for the couple than to share jokes together and laugh often about anything that encourages them both.
Do the test!
Fall in love a man making him smile is the best alternative!
Key # 2: Friendship
It is clear that you want a love relationship, but you should first think about the beginnings of it.
Perhaps you have failed in previous relationships , because you have not found your ideal boy or because you have not thought that, in addition to being lovers, they must be, above all, friends.
Knowing how to share and trust your secrets to your partner can be very healthy for both of you.
It’s not about telling you everything, but they shouldn’t have secrets or misgivings about things that concern them both.
You must be able to share your past, your present with him, and the future they hope to have together.
Key # 3: Share
If we go this way, we can reach an upper limit of generosity and sharing.
Sentimental relationships are not only to receive love, you also have to know how to give it, even without expecting anything in return!
It is the first thing they should share: love. Then every moment counts.
It is not that they do not separate for a moment for both to experience the same.
Everyone can and should have their experiences separately and in common.
Then they should be able to share the other that day by day.
Even giving something you like very much to your boy can be very rewarding in the end.
Sharing physical things like a meal or drink, a trip, a walk or other things will be very important.
But knowing how to share joys, sorrows, dreams and fears will strengthen the bond that unites them.
Key # 4: Care And Love
The romantic relationships are full of love. It’s not about you being for your boy like his mom or his sister, no!
But it is true that care and affection for him cannot be lacking.
There is nothing more rewarding for a person than knowing that another takes care of him, that he takes care of him, that he pampers him and gives him affection, that he is aware of his needs.
We all want to receive affection and care, we are all a little happier if we know that there is someone who watches over our dream.
Do not miss the opportunity to check it with your boy, look at it from time to time and you will see the results!
Become the ideal couple !
Key # 5: Support
You should also keep in mind that mutual support is very important in sentimental relationships .
Your boy should know that he can count on you, and that he can ask for advice whenever he needs it.
Knowing that you are there for him, that you are his safe harbor after a storm, will always want to return to you, to his refuge, to the place where he is supported and understood, where he can rest his head and trust.
He may sometimes be wrong, that is part of life, and it is not about always giving him his reason or hiding his mistake.
The goal is to share your decisions even if you disagree, without hiding your opinion and letting you see how you think.
Key # 6: Trust
Wherever you look you will find something similar to this idea: trust is one of the basic pillars in romantic relationships .
And it is very true. You can’t be in a romantic relationships where you distrust and doubt your boy totally all the time.
I know that heartbreak and betrayal leave deep traces, but not all men are equal!
It doesn’t have to happen to you the same thing over and over again.
Also, if you are not going to trust him, why torture yourself as your partner?
Don’t Forget That…
You cannot control everything as much as you want, nor can you be attached to it all the time, so the option, in my view, is that you trust or leave it.
The same happens if your boy doesn’t trust you. Find out why this happens and try to remedy it.
Give him reasons to trust and not the opposite.
Be sure to read how to improve trust in couples .
Key # 7: Feeling Loved And Loving
It’s not about you being caressed or kissing him all the time. That’s not bad, but there are times for everything.Also, this does not necessarily have to be a demonstration of love.
Sometimes, the other person needs to know that you love him, and that is achieved in two ways: by saying it directly and by acts that will reaffirm your words.
If you are one of those who have trouble saying what they feel, you must work to change that.
If the same thing happens to your boy, you can teach him to overcome it. You will see that a simple “I love you” when you wake up, just make our day!
Key # 8: Communication
In all sentimental relationships this is also essential.
It would be, along with trust, another pillar for the castle that they intend to build together: life in common.
Knowing how to say what you feel in a right way, in its right measure and in time, can be one of your best qualities.
It is worth saying insults, shouting, offending the other or even crying and saying nothing. You have to know, even discuss.
You and your boy can work on it.
It is not something that is achieved in one day, but it is achieved without a doubt if both are willing to try to fight for that love they have.
The healthy partner communication is essential in any relationship.
Key # 9: Express What You Feel
And this is related to the above. Not only is communicating and saying what you think and feel, but knowing how to do it well.
You are welcome to shut up by avoiding a fight or not to contradict his opinion; That is not right.
You have to learn to express your views, to talk, to say what you feel in a calm way even if it hurts a lot.
If you start to hide what you really feel to please him, do you think that will lead you on a good path?
Hiding your thoughts, ideas and your feelings, will be like lying to you.In the end those lies clump in the throat and one day they end up going out in the worst way: screaming in a fight that ends the relationship.
It is best to express yourself and assert your judgment without imposing, but without letting it pass; You will feel more relieved!
Key # 10: Share Values
They say opposite poles attract, and this to some extent may be true.
But everything has limits, and you can’t be with a person who doesn’t share things with you, and if those things are your values, your principles and your ideals, more importantly!
To build a life and have happy romantic relationships , it is about building common values and sharing them, if they are not all, at least the most important.
I give you an example taken to an extreme: would you be with a person who believes that killing others is a good thing?
They may not share everything, they may not even profess the same faith and they can overcome that and respect the other, but they must find what makes them be together and work for that common idea to stay that way.
What Not To Do In Couple Relations
Finally, I am going to leave you some tips that can serve you even more about the mistakes you should avoid in love relationships .
If you want everything to go well:
- Do not fight over or under.
- Do not try to change it.
- Accept it as it is.
- Do not belittle him.
- Respect it and make it respect you.
- Clap your achievements and help overcome your defeats.
- Don’t make him ignore his past.
- Appreciate those who appreciate it.
- Don’t humiliate him or use blackmail as a weapon.
And the last, but equally important: love yourself!
Eric Cameron is a passionate relationship coach and counselor with a focus on helping couples reconnect and build strong and lasting relationships. He has years of experience working with couples and helping them to understand the intricacies of healthy relationships. He also provides guidance on how to maintain a healthy relationship and deal with difficult topics. Eric’s approach is tailored specifically to the couple’s needs and he has a wealth of knowledge and experience to draw upon.