Both the friendship and the couple relationship is based on trust and when this is broken, what better than these letters to ask for forgiveness that we give you today. You can be inspired by them to write please forgive me letter what you cannot express in person, as a first gesture to seek forgiveness and rapprochement with that person so important to you.
Letters to apologize to your partner
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You know that you have been wrong, and a multitude of sensations run through your body, but you are unable to express them in person, or the other person simply does not want to see you . Calm down, take a deep breath, pick up a pencil and paper, and resort to the traditional epistle.
Here are some letters to apologize to your partner and give you another chance. You have to find the point between naturalness and depth.
1. Letter to apologize to your partner for infidelity
I write these lines in the hope that at some point you will want to read these words of regret. Go ahead my understanding towards you, I understand your pain and your bitterness, and I share all the decisions you can make, but believe it or not you are the most important thing in my life, and I have to fight to the end to try to save what is ours.
I suppose that with time the pain will disappear from your heart and then you will be able to hear my lament more easily, love. Believe me, if I tell you that since everything happened, not a single moment has passed in which I do not regret all the damage I have caused you. If anyone does not deserve all this, it is you, the purest and most generous soul I have ever known.
That is why every time I look in the mirror I am ashamed of myself, and if it is any consolation, I am paying the price of my betrayal, for there is not a single day that I do not sink into this unbearable feeling of culpability.
And when I think of you, my heart breaks, because I cannot suffer for another moment that pain of thinking that the best person is suffering because of me.
That is why I ask you, my love, in this last cry of despair, to forgive me, to give me one last chance to show you that all this has taught me to be a better person and to realize the treasure that I have. Today a new life can begin for both of us, together, without any more betrayals or deceptions: because everything that remains for us to do and to live is much more beautiful and wonderful than all the bad that we left behind.
2. Letter to apologize to your partner for having failed him
Hello my life,
I suppose that you will be wishing not to see me again for a while, or to hear from me. And I understand it. But if you read this letter, you will understand what I feel, and you will at least give me the possibility to explain my point of view and everything I think about us, because what I have learned from all this will help me to be better in the future.
My love, after so many sleepless nights and thinking about all this, I have come to the conclusion that I have not known how to appreciate what I had by my side, and when I realized it it was too late. Now I have to live with that unbearable pain that corrodes my gut every time I feel that I have not been able to give you back what you gave me.
But all that pain is not even comparable to the terror that assails my heart when I think that there may be no turning back. Because living without you, darling, would be the worst sentence for all my mistakes. I know that I have failed you , I know that I have been careless, and I know that you have not had me there when you have needed me, but I have learned from mistakes.
When I think about all that you have given for me, and the times that I have failed you, I can only feel shame and disgust for my being, but when I realize how little I am by your side I recognize my smallness and I impose the firm commitment to improve to become what you expect of me. And only by your side will I be able to achieve it.
You don’t have to give me an answer now, my love, because I know disappointment prevents you from doing so. I just want you to give me that opportunity , because today I ask your forgiveness with the assurance that all this will lead us to a stronger relationship and happiness.
3. Letter to apologize to your partner for treating her badly
Hello my love,
I think there are no words that can fill the void that I have left in your heart because of my bad attitude, and I only hope that one day you will understand that this letter that I now write to ask for your forgiveness contains only the words that spring from my heart. And that each of my apologies is born of the pain of knowing that I have lost you, and the sincerity to recover you again.
I do not know what is happening to me, love, but I know that my behavior towards you has been bad and I want to do everything possible to solve it and return to your side. Because all this time of pain and regret has helped me to realize that the only thing that matters to me is getting both of us to be happy and to be together forever.
Sorry for treating you badly, for not giving you the attention you deserved, for not knowing how to take care of that treasure that is you. I just want you to know that I regret everything and wish that everything is in the past, like a bad memory, and that it will not be repeated. Never. Because from now on I will treat you as you deserve.
The most painful thing of all is to look back , look back , and remember all the good things you have done for me, and remember that I fell in love with you precisely because you have a huge heart. And he knows that I have treated you badly is something that I can never forgive myself. Only, if anything, will I be able to restore the penalty by obtaining your forgiveness.
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4. Letter to ask your partner for forgiveness (and a second chance)
Hello my love,
I think I have not slept for so many nights that my brain begins to play tricks on me, but I still have enough clarity to write you these lines in which I put my heart and soul in the hope that you will forgive me . This is not a letter just to apologize to you, but to start over from scratch.
It is the moment to kneel before you without fear or shame and tell you, from the bottom of my heart, that I am deeply sorry for having disappointed you with my attitude . But you learn from mistakes, and at the same time that I apologize for not being up to what you deserve, I also confess my purpose to evolve.
Today, with this letter, the person I was dies and a new being is born , renewed and with enthusiasm and hope to start a new life full of happiness and fulfillment by your side. If you give me that privilege, my love, if you are able to forgive all my blunders and give me a second chance, I will fight every day to give you what you deserve.
Because, won’t it be nice to fall in love again like at the beginning, from scratch, leaving behind the bad moments and embracing with enthusiasm the future of happiness that awaits us? Today everything begins again, my love, if you decide, like me, that all my mistakes are buried in oblivion forever.
5. Letter to apologize to a girlfriend (in general)
I know that I have not risen to the occasion and that the damage I have caused may be irreparable. I know I have not been the person you expected, but I want you to know that, despite everything, you are the only person who can make me better . I’m writing to tell you that I can’t imagine a world without you, that I want to share the rest of my days with you.
I’ve been reflecting on what happened, and I think what separates us is a trifle compared to what unites us. Despite our differences, which are not few, what unites us is much deeper, more authentic . Therefore, we must always find a reason to look each other in the eye and remember why we love each other.
For my part, I have proposed not only to behave better with you, but to take advantage of what happened to improve in each and every aspect of my life . I know that by your side I will achieve it, because by your side I am stronger.
And if at some point I have broken your heart, I promise to pick up the pieces, one by one , to rebuild a much stronger and more beautiful love. Remember that nothing or no one should make you feel bad, and that you are a wonderful person. I love you and I will love you for the rest of my days and that, to this day, is the only thing that is clear to me.
6. Example of a love letter to ask for forgiveness
I’m sorry, my love
Above all I am sorry, and that is why I am writing you this letter, because my apologies come out better on paper and so I make sure that you can understand everything, reading it as many times as necessary. I’m so sorry to have disappointed you, that the truth is that I don’t really know how to give you all the explanations, nor do I know how to apologize .
On the other hand, I do know perfectly well that I was wrong, that I betrayed the trust you had placed in me and in our relationship and that I broke so many dreams and illusions. And for that I ask your forgiveness. But I want you to know the reasons, or rather the sole reason, that led me to disappoint you. It was out of fear .
I was so scared of the path our relationship was taking , so scared that I was going too fast that something inside me forced me to take a step back. I wasn’t very aware of the damage I was doing to you either, really. The truth is that it was something motivated by selfishness and fear and that is why I ask for your forgiveness.
I have no idea what is the best way to repair the damage , but I am willing to work on this relationship and take care of it until it is restored. Because if there is something I am sure of at the moment, if my mistake has served something is to know what I want and what I don’t want. I love you and I don’t want to lose you.
Sorry, love .
7. Acknowledge and apologize for an infidelity
Hello my love,
If I am writing this love letter to you, instead of talking to you face to face, it is not because I want to hide; It is rather because this situation has me so confused that the words to explain it seem hidden in some very hidden place in my head. I need a lot of time to think about each one of them, so I could never have had this conversation with you.
That is why I am writing to you today to acknowledge my great mistake, that failure of which I will be sorry for the rest of my days. That impulsiveness has managed to lose me again and again I want to travel to the past to avoid that moment of weakness in which I found other lips.
I think there is no way to justify such an act, so I will not try to do it. I don’t know why it happened, or what led me to it. But it’s a betrayal that you don’t deserve. I have played with your confidence, that now I no longer deserve. And I owe you a thousand and one apologies.
Now that I have managed to write you this letter of forgiveness, which is also one of love, I am at your disposal to sit down and talk about what happened. I need it. We need it.
I don’t want this to end here but I understand that you need a moment to think about what I just told you.
When you want, I’ll wait for you.
I love u
8. A letter of forgiveness for doing it wrong
Hello my love,
Have you noticed that, even though the years go by we still hand in hand? At this point, I think I owed you a love letter. Although at this point, we are well aware of our strengths and weaknesses, there is something I still regret; I don’t understand why I’m still so proud.
I know it’s something I have yet to work on, but I wanted to apologize for getting carried away like that until now. I think this letter of forgiveness is being a good start: I have put my pride aside and decided to openly expose myself to you. Without a doubt, this letter of forgiveness helps me to come out stronger and learn a new lesson.
I am writing to apologize for my conduct in our discussions. There is something inside me that it possesses every time we get angry and it transforms me. I also apologize for my difficulty in forgetting your offenses and hoping that you will let mine pass. Excuse me for my outspoken and arrogant responses.
For our sake, I’m willing to put my pride aside, because I know it’s not going to get me anywhere except to get away from you.
I love u
9. Letter to apologize for the lies
Hello my love,
I have looked for many ways to ask your forgiveness , but none have seemed enough. I wanted to apologize, from the bottom of my heart, for the lies with which I have infected our relationship.
Forgive me, because I know that I have offended you and that you feel betrayed. Forgive me for the clouds of mistrust with which I have overshadowed our relationship. Forgive me for failing you even though I have always known that you gave everything for me. Forgive me, because I know I hurt your confidence, and worst of all, it was because of a silly lie.
Forgive me because your honesty does not deserve these lies . Forgive me because these lies have been my worst contempt. Forgive me for risking this beautiful thing that unites us.
Now, faced with the possibility of losing you, my steps have become very unstable. But you must have something very clear: I could have told you some lies, but I know that the love that binds me to you is not false. Such a pure and enormous feeling cannot be a deception of my senses. You can be sure, that you have become a big part of my life.
Please, my life, forgive me.
I love u
10. Forgiveness from the bottom of my heart
This letter is for you, to forgive me. I have not been that companion that you deserved. I have been carried away by those demons that inhabit me. But now that I have you far away, now that we have separated because you have decided to put land in between, I know that I owe you a thousand and one apologies.
Your absence weighs on me like a slab on my shoulders. The wailing has become the damn air that makes my lungs breathe. And now, I regret everything that I let go of without enjoying it enough. I know that I have failed you and now I seek your forgiveness day and night. I don’t know if my regret will serve as a token of love, but my days are full of ‘hopefully not ‘.
Because of us, I am able to fight without rest. Hopefully, sooner or later, I get your forgiveness. Our beautiful relationship needs to go back to what it was before, how happy it made us. This forgiveness means everything to me because, despite everything, my love for you has not diminished an inch.
I will write you a thousand love letters until I achieve your forgiveness. I wait for you. I love u.
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