ike everything in life, love is also a cycle, attraction, conquest, love and formality , are a path that couples meet only if they are willing to do so.
What happens if he does not want to compromise? It has little to do with love because some people may feel totally in love, but the fear gets bigger and the separation gets closer.
Strengthening the commitment to someone who is afraid to get involved in the formality of a relationship depends on trust, zero harassment and living day to day exposing the good and the bad of what they have formed together. Among the best tips this is what you should always consider:
- DO NOT CLAIM WHEN YOU DO NOT RESPOND TO THE MESSAGES
Take your time, it’s about not losing control waiting for an ideal that deep down you know doesn’t exist. It’s not that I don’t want to be by your side, but that it is governed under other times.
He is a free person and looks at the commitment differently. If you do not respond to your messages in 10, 20 or up to an hour you should know that claiming can make you speak no more. Understand the personality of the other and do not seek to change from one day to the next.
- DO NOT SHOW ANXIETY
You love him, but that does not indicate that he loves you just like you, that is, spending so much time together is not his priority, but that does not define his true feelings. Allow it to adapt to you, in a precise time and show your virtues.
- DON’T TRY TO FORCE LOVE
It is not the same to love because you want, to love because you want; the reactions are not honest and much less lead you to live a real relationship, force the other to behave in love in a certain way only about the person feeling harassed, persecuted or even blackmailed. It doesn’t give you the best version and you could get an unpleasant surprise.
- AVOID SPYING YOUR SOCIAL NETWORK ACCOUNTS
Social networks influence separations by up to 85%, from WhatsApp to Facebook, you want to know where and with whom you are, your new posts and the list goes on. But everything is used to demand more time, demand attitudes or expected visits.
- HOW CAN YOU LOVE SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T WANT TO COMMIT?
If he says he is in love, but fears commitment, he can certainly lose a great love. Unfortunately for them, love does not become simple, it is accompanied by formality, a life together, children, family, etc. However, your best option is to run away, the key is to make you see that running away will not give you happiness.
Men who fear commitment do not like the pressures, do not feel cornered in the relationship, their lack of interest to compromise places it in a comfort zone.
ACHIEVE THAT IT IS COMMITTED WITHOUT BEING AWARE OF THIS WAY:
- SHOW YOU ARE A MATURE WOMAN
If he seems to be the one for you, just leaving aside the fear of commitment is because he has not found someone to show him what true love is, that he has not met a person worth his effort.
It is there where you must show your safety and above all your understanding, always from the psychological and not emotional point, because I could use it against you and fall into a comfort zone.
- He is your partner
You are not his teacher or his psychologist, you are his partner, and although he feels the need to show you how beautiful they can spend together, you must respect their time and space.
Love your partner, offer containment, show your best and expect the same, but keep in mind that it doesn’t always work the same. Learn to identify their evolution, their loss of fear and their signs of commitment gradually, if it does not happen, it is time to make the decision.